I love the occasional sleepover with a good friend. The pressure of limited time is lifted; you don’t have to condense conversation, confidences, and closeness into one dinner. You also don’t have to call the next day and go over everything—you’re both right there and can do it over breakfast. It’s a relaxed, leisurely way to recharge fondness and friendship. Whether sleepovers are planned or spur of the moment, this checklist of tips will help ensure that your guest accommodation resembles the graciousness of your offer, and that your friend feels welcome and highly valued.
1 | Be Prepared
Whether you have an extra room designated for guests or you’re converting a sofa into a bed for the night, make sure you always have clean sheets, extra pillows, and fresh towels on hand.
2 | Bundle Up
Have an array of quilts and throws for the end of the bed, according to the season.
3 | Make it Special
Add a personal touch — a note, a homemade lavender sachet, a sprig of rosemary, or a small spray of garden flowers on the pillow.
4 | Keep it Bright
Make sure the light bulbs are working. Dimmer switches make it more intimate for the guest.
5 | Set the Table
Place tissues, fresh water and a glass on the bedside table.
6 | Provide Power
Devote a universal charger to your guest space so your friends can keep plugged in.
7 | Stock Up
Provide a spare toothbrush and other toiletries.